In Loving Memory of My Father, Frank Grayshield (April 10, 1942 – November 3, 2025)

On the eve of November 3, my father, Frank Grayshield, passed away peacefully in his sleep, in his own bed, beside his lifelong partner and wife, Clenta Grayshield.

He is survived by my mother Clenta, his children Robin, Adrian, and me (Lisa), seven grandchildren — Gabrielle, Adrianne, Tiva, Raven, Aaron, Talon, and Taylor — and nine great-grandchildren who will carry his spirit forward.

My dad was a true community man. He cared deeply for our people and dedicated his life to service. He served on the Carson Colony Community Council, was President of the Washoe Warrior Society, and founded the Frank Grayshield Memorial Scholarship, which has helped so many Washoe members and descendants pursue higher education. His legacy will continue to live on through this scholarship and through all those he inspired.

He was a veteran, a retired community health worker, and a beloved father, husband, and elder. He carried the burdens of colonization in his own body — diabetes, high blood pressure, and more — yet he never stopped dreaming of a healthier, united community. His vision for building a People’s House — a space of healing, spirit, and connection for the Washoe people — will live on through all of us who continue his work.

In his elder years, my father began to relearn and speak our language. Even when his words came slowly, he spoke prayers with courage and love. He showed us all that you’re never too old to learn and never too old to come home to who you are.

My father will forever live in our hearts — a warrior, a teacher, and a man who brought people together. His presence will be deeply missed, but his vision will continue to guide us.

Rest in peace, Dad. We will carry your dream forward with love, strength, and gratitude.